Our Story

Some love stories begin with a glance across a crowded room; ours began with a notification.

Yuen-Jing had just traded the operating rooms of Hawaii for a new attending post in Chicagoland, fresh from residency and full of quiet ambition. Yanqing, meanwhile, had built a steady life in IT — patient, deliberate, and ready for something true.

As their conversations deepened, the world seemed to fold in on itself: he had once worn an Army uniform on the same Hawaiian islands where she had later learned to save lives. Their paths had nearly touched, parted only by time. Still, they found themselves reminiscing over the same islands: the quiet beauty of those shores, the personal growth each had earned while living there, and, of course, the kind of food scene you can never quite leave behind. And then, on Valentine's Day, within the soft walls of the home they were beginning to share, Yanqing spoke the words of Mr. Darcy from her beloved “Pride and Prejudice” and asked her to be his forever. The Yes came easily — the easiest she has ever given.

We're engaged!

We're engaged!

Bellevue Botanical Garden, Bellevue, WA

Apr 2026

This garden is one of our favorite places to wander on a free afternoon. So when it came time for engagement photos, we knew exactly where to come back to — in spring, when everything is in bloom.

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A bench for two

A bench for two

Bellevue Botanical Garden, Bellevue, WA

Apr 2026

This garden is one of our favorite places to wander on a free afternoon. So when it came time for engagement photos, we knew exactly where to come back to — in spring, when everything is in bloom.

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Among the azaleas

Among the azaleas

Bellevue Botanical Garden, Bellevue, WA

Apr 2026

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Spring in bloom

Spring in bloom

Chicago Botanic Garden, Glencoe, IL

May 2025

We love visiting botanical gardens together. This one was taken in Chicago — the city where we met.

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Penglai Pavilion

Penglai Pavilion

Penglai Pavilion, Yantai

Feb 2025

We spent our second Chinese New Year together in my hometown of Yantai. This was taken at Penglai Pavilion — one of China's Four Great Towers, perched on a seaside cliff and famous in legend as the place where the Eight Immortals crossed the sea.

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Lunar New Year in Qingzhou

Lunar New Year in Qingzhou

Qingzhou, China

Jan 2025

Taken at a museum in Qingzhou, while visiting my grandmother for Chinese New Year.

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Rattlesnake Ledge

Rattlesnake Ledge

Rattlesnake Ledge, WA

Jul 2024

We love to hike. Rattlesnake Ledge is one of the most popular trails in the greater Seattle area — this was taken at the top, looking down over Rattlesnake Lake.

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Above the city

Above the city

Space Needle, Seattle

Jun 2024

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Peonies by the pier

Peonies by the pier

Pike Place Market, Seattle

Jun 2024

Taken at Pike Place Market — one of our favorite places to wander, for the snacks, the flowers, and all the handmade things.

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Cave Hike

Cave Hike

Starved Rock State Park, IL

Mar 2024

Taken at the end of a trail leading to a waterfall in Starved Rock State Park, Illinois.

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